Let’s just say it like this…
Guys aren’t like girls…usually not.
You think differently. You act differently. They do things that don’t make sense.
Everyone knows that effective communication is key to a healthy relationship.
It would be nice if you could just ask a question and get a simple answer.
It’s not that easy….
Men think differently than women, you have to think your questions through and ask them cleverly.
I am here to help you
50 questions you should ask a guy. I categorized things into 5 different stages of a relationship. We treat:
Let’s get started!
General questions
– Questions you should ask a guy
1. What are your personal goals?
2. What kind of childhood did you have?
3. What makes you insecure?
4. What do you expect from love in a relationship?
5. What’s the one thing you can’t tolerate?
6. What do you find attractive in a woman?
7. What expectations do you have of yourself?
8. What was your most memorable birthday?
9. Have you ever worn girls’ clothes?
10. Who are your family and friends?
11. What kind of music do you like and where in town do you like to go?
12. What’s the one thing you can’t live without?
13. What’s your funniest memory from high school?
14. How do you feel when you work for (company)?
15. Which item did you cross off your list recently?
16. If you could describe yourself in one word, what would it be?
17. What is your favorite food?
18. What is your favorite character from your childhood?
19. What kind of animal do you love the most?
20. Would you rather choose fishing or hiking?
21. Do you believe in God?
First date
– Questions to a guy
All over the world, men and women alike get excited at the thought of a first date.
You are intelligent, compassionate, and have a crazy sense of humor…
He just needs to get to know you…
Expecting someone to get to know you fully after just one date is unrealistic.
Hope is not lost.
You can show off your great qualities without being pushy.
and make him curious about you…
By randomly throwing these questions into the conversation…
What’s the most important thing you don’t like about women?
Do you think online dating is harder or easier?
Do you feel intimidated by women who make more money than you?
Who was your celebrity crush when you were a little kid?
am I making you nervous?
how do you feel around me?
Do you sometimes lie to get what you want from girls?
What was the first thing that came to your mind before you saw me for the first time?
Would you rather win $1 million or fall in love?
Do you have any questions for me?
What is your romantic soul animal?
The trial period
– Questions to a guy
Questions to ask a guy
Things are looking good. It’s obvious that he likes you and you like him.
BUT…
The lack of certainty breeds anxiety…
You managed to free your perfect dance partner and…
The music could stop at any moment.
You don’t want her to stop…
Now it’s time to move things forward.
It’s time to start asking the right questions to get clarity on your relationship status.
Ask these questions and he will understand.
- Do your friends know about me?
- Do you want to meet other girls or do you want me?
- Are you sure you want to date me?
- Would you be jealous if you saw me flirting with another guy?
- wanna hang out with me and my friends
- Do you mind if I post this picture of us on Instagram?
- can you give me a massage?
- How much would you miss me if I never spoke to you again?
- What did you think of me on our first date?
- Are you surprised we’re still together?
The honeymoon phase:
– Questions you should ask a guy
You are about to fall in love.
This is something else. He could be the “one”. You think he might love you.
you would like to know
Your friends say it: you are mad with love. You don’t care what they think.
It’s time to find out how real this love is.
Is she too good to be true? Or is it true love?
Ask these questions to find the answer.
Pay close attention to his answers and reactions…
- do you like being with me
- Does your family know about me?
- If you could fly around the world with me, where would we go?
- Why didn’t your last relationship work?
- Are you afraid that I might break your heart?
- do you ever want to have children If yes, how many?
- Would you rather live in a fancy condo in a big city or on a farm ranch?
- Would you still want me when I get old and ugly?
- Have I ever done or said anything that upset you?
- can you remember your dreams What are they about?
Serious Dating:
– Questions you should ask a guy
It’s official between you and your husband.
You know it. He knows it. Everybody knows.
Things are serious. You don’t know exactly how serious.
Will he be the love of your life? Forever?
How can you know for sure?
He’s probably thinking the same thing…isn’t he?
It’s time to ask questions that make up the truth…
Without scaring him.
Just ask him these questions while you guys share an intimate moment together….
- Would you like to come to my parent’s house for dinner?
- Do you have any deep-hidden secrets you want to tell me?
- If we have kids and I love them more than you, can you handle it?
- Do you want to take a break from our relationship?
- If I were to move to another state for work or school reasons, would you come with me?
- If we were in a long-term relationship for a year would you stay true to me?
- Do you understand that if you marry me, you will also marry my family?
- Would you rather travel the world with me or with your male friends?
- Are you okay with me being friends with guys?
- If I married you what would you expect from me?
Being together for years:
– Questions you should ask a guy
You guys have it all behind you. You’ve been through everything.
Now you are still meant for each other.
It’s safe to say that neither of you is going anywhere.
At this point, it seems only natural to accept things.
But people change as they grow.
This can be the most crucial stage where you should ask important questions.
If you ask him these questions, you will find out what has changed, what has stayed the same…
And where do you both want to go… Ask wisely.
- Are you still happy with our relationship?
- Have you ever wanted to break up our relationship over the years?
- How did you imagine 10 years ago what our life would be like?
- Are you ready to make a career change, even if it means a lifestyle change?
- Have you ever thought about moving to another state or country?
- What’s still on your bucket list? Why haven’t you done it yet?
- If I get very sick, will you take care of me? Or are you sending me away?
- Do you still find me as attractive as you did when you first met me?
- Do you love me now for the same or different reasons than before?
- If my parents get very sick, will you help me take care of them?
Bonus/Random Questions for a Guy:
What’s on your bucket list?
Which social media do you use the most?
What kind of music do you like and where in town do you like to go out?
If you could only eat one food for the rest of your life, what would you choose?
Which fictional character scares you the most and why?
What is your favorite movie of all time?
What is your dream job, where would you like to work, and do you have any ambitions for the future?
Do you believe in God? Do you have role models and idols, and who are they?
Is your appearance most important to you?
If you could live anywhere in the world, where would it be?
What is the happiest event in your life?
remember. Everyone has questions.
Your questions are important and you deserve to ask them.
As important as it is to ask YOUR questions, it is also important to ask the RIGHT questions.
He has just as many questions as you do. If you keep the communication open, you should find that your relationships with men will be much easier and better.
Have fun asking.
