The 5 Demands of a Narcissist
The idea of dealing with a narcissist can be terrifying. What do narcissists want? They have a terrible sense of entitlement that keeps you wondering if they want you to chase after them or if they want the opposite.
You can never be sure about narcissistic behavior, but here are 5 things that can make it easier for you to understand them.
What do narcissists want? 5 What Narcissists Want
1. I want your fuel
I want your fuel I want everything and I want it from you, him, her, them, and most of all from you. I want him from the moment I get up to the moment sleep embraces me. I want it to spill over me, strong and plentiful, gushing out of you.
I want your positive fuel, joy, adoration, love, passion, and praise. I want your negative fuel, the hate, the anger, the tears, and the fear.
Pour it over me, immerse me in this uplifting, invigorating, and sustaining fuel. It’s never enough and I want more as your fuel fuels the flames within me, they burn and rise and fuel me as I carve my way through everything I do. I want your fuel now, tomorrow, and always.
2. I want to devour you
I am huge, a giant, a prince among men, a beast that moves across the earth with ease and purpose. I want to devour you and make sure no trace of you remains while I fully integrate you into who I am.
I want my tendrils to reach out to you, make their way to the fuel fumes emanating from you, and seek you out with their groping senses. I want them to wrap around you and pull you to me, tie you to me until I steadily suck you into my world and false reality.
I want to tie you to me, tie you to you, tie you to you, tie you to you, and let you penetrate while I gradually devour you and envelop you with my greatness. You won’t be able to resist it because the exhilaration and joy you experience when this process happens is irresistible. I want to own you, I want you to be a part of me, and I want there to be no beginning for you and no end for me.
3. I want to be the one
I wanna be the one you keep thinking about I want you to be the person you revolve around, your sun, your center of the universe. I want to be the one recognized for my greatness, my brilliance, and my accomplishments.
I don’t care that I overdid them or stole them from others I’ve bumped into and peeled off facets of their character to add to my own. I do not care about that at all. I just care that I’m the one who turns heads when I walk into a room.
I’m the one who gets applauded. I want to be the one to lead, conquer and destroy. The destroyer of worlds, the maker of new worlds, one god. I want to be the one whose power radiates from him so that all who look at me can feel it. I want to be the one to shock and awe. I want to be the one to do this.
I want to be the one who governs, who presides, and who dictates. I want to be the one you rely on, turn to, and surrender to. I want to be the one who gets credit for all achievements, I want to be the one who is your alpha and your omega, your first thought and your last thought. I wanna be the one whose name you say with your dying breath.
4. I want your essence
I am the soul stealer, the charlatan who comes with sugary promises and offers you the world in exchange for your essence. You never realize that this is the price of this deal, but I want to suck the essence out of you, bleed you dry, and consume it for me.
I want you to remain a broken, desiccated shell. I want your essence to fill the gaping hole that gapes inside me. I want this sweet, wondrous essence to flow through me, soothe the pain, soothe the feverish rush, and bring comfort and relief.
I want your essence to flow through me like a cleansing river, washing away the sickness that confuses me. I want your essence to wipe away the dirt, remove the streaks, and erase the stains. I know that I flirt with all kinds of dirt, but your essence will protect me from such temptations. That’s why I want her.
5. I want it to stop
Or do I want that?
What do you think of narcissistic behavior? If you are dealing with a narcissist or know someone who is dealing with a narcissist, be sure to share this article on what a narcissist wants.
Frequently Asked Questions (FAQs)
What do narcissistic people want?
Narcissists always want to have their way. You tend to be controlling and inflexible. If something is beneficial to them, they are willing to go along with it, but if it is of no use to them, they just leave it aside.
Does a narcissist want love?
According to research, narcissists desire love and nurturing just like any other human being, but the thought of being vulnerable in front of someone makes them very uncomfortable.