It’s easy to become a target, especially if you’re an empath and have “certain qualities” that narcissists find appealing. Narcissists always feel able to control you. Did you know that your personality can make you a victim of narcissists? This is why the narcissist is after you.
5 alarming reasons why the narcissist is targeting you
1. Worshiper of love
We require our targets to be committed to the concept of love. You want to find love, experience love, love and be loved. The thought of love is central to your life and you truly believe that our purpose on this earth is to love others.
This not only means that you love the people around you, but more importantly that you believe in the fulfillment that comes from having that one special someone that you are committed to, that you do everything for and for that you sacrifice.
The existence of love is a reason for you to exist and therefore you must find it and, once you have found it, maintain and nurture it. We want the followers of love because your devotion to love often blinds you to so many other things. By pretending to give you love, we can use that quality of yours to ensnare you all the more easily.
Our goal must show compassion. This compassion must apply primarily to ourselves, although we also apply it to other people and objects such as animals. B. can show animals to recognize it. When we find that someone cares more about animals and things than people, we are not meeting our requirement.
If we see signs of compassion for animals at an early stage, it usually (but not always) follows that that person will also be compassionate towards humans.
We’re looking for decent people. People who are well mannered, polite and understanding. People who are considerate of others, who wait their turn, who give others a piece of cake before everyone else, who donate to charity, and who conduct themselves in a dignified manner.
Decency is an attractive trait because it tells us that you hold yourself to certain standards and that you expect us to do the same. This is important, because we know that this is often a sign that you won’t give up on us when the going gets tough.
4. Moral compass
We prefer someone with a strong moral compass, someone who would turn in a wallet with its contents intact to the police if they found such an item on the street, or alert the clerk if given too much change.
This person is monogamous and loyal and believes that others should behave according to a similar moral code. Again, this tells us that once devaluation sets in and our behavior violates your moral compass, you’re much more likely to persevere, so there’s the accompanying emotional response, and with it, plenty of fuel.
A person who always takes care of someone else. Whether it is through work to provide for us, excellent housekeeping, nurturing when we are ill, and concern for our well-being, the caring quality is very important and must be evident in our primary source.
This not only tells us that you want to take care of us, but also signals to us that when we start belittling you, you want to fix and heal us, and that is why you will keep pushing yourself and trying to do the right thing.
It also tells us that we can expect considerable residual benefit from you by caring for us, which is our idea of how you should be: submissive and obedient.
Why did the narcissist choose you? How did he or she come to the conclusion that you are the ideal target for his seduction campaign? Did you do something to draw the attention of this dangerous enemy? This direct and comprehensive book will help you understand what the different types of narcissists look for when searching for victims.
Whether you want to prevent it from happening again or you want to understand why you were chosen, this book gives you the answers in an uncompromising and direct way. What are the different types of narcissists looking for?
How do they go about making sure their goals meet those qualities? What are the special qualities that attract all narcissists? Where are their hunting grounds and which is the most dangerous? Who is the narcissist targeting and why are certain people left alone?
What does it mean for the narcissist when he or she is looking for the green light? These questions and more are answered in this hard-hitting and disturbing book on why the narcissist chooses you.
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