10 Signs Someone Is Secretly In Love With You
How can we know for sure that we are in love, or even better, how can we infer that someone is in love with us?
In addition to various body signs, there are also behavioral and attitude signs that are much more reliable evidence of infatuation.
It is necessary to observe primarily non-verbal communication and even verbal communication, what and how it is pronounced.
We talk about the signs of a secret crush when someone is shy or has had a bad experience before and can’t just come up and declare their love to you.
Luckily, that someone, no matter how cautious they are, will show their infatuation with a few signs in their demeanor.
Long eye contact
The first and fundamental sign is prolonged eye contact. Eye contact is generally important in every respect and it is not said for nothing that the eyes are the mirror of the soul, because the eyes really show what is going on in a person.
On the other hand, prolonged eye contact means not only longer duration of individual contact, but also frequent re-establishment of eye contact.
Pay special attention when you notice someone secretly looking at you and when you look at each other to see how that person is reacting at that moment.
If this person looks down abruptly, it’s a good indicator that they like you. People usually react the same way, trying to hide their eyes due to the automatic feeling of easy shame.
However, if she’s still looking at you after you catch her doing it, they’re already experienced seducers who are just flirting, so they’re doing a great job, and it’s difficult to talk about special emotions.
The pupils dilate
If you’re talking to this person and have a chance to see their eyes clearly, pay attention to their pupils. When someone is in love with you, that person’s pupils will dilate as soon as you speak or even as soon as that person looks at you.
The dilated pupil, due to the instincts of elongating the species, enables the male in the animal to perceive as many females as possible in the field of vision in front of him through the wider pupil opening.
This reaction also persisted in humans. When we’re at a romantic dinner or near someone we like, our pupils dilate.
The wide pupil gives a special shine to the eyes in love, and then the eyes really become a mirror of the soul and emotions.
So the next time you look someone in the eye, remember that you can see a lot more than just eye color. Sometimes by looking into someone’s eyes and pupils we can track what’s going on in someone’s mind.
The feet are pointing at you
One of the clearest neurolinguistic techniques in communicating with people, be it in business or social settings, is to observe how the feet of our interlocutors are positioned when speaking, mainly standing, but sometimes sitting.
When a person is in love with you, their feet will be pointed towards you. However, this sign does not automatically mean infatuation, but can represent authority and power, a position due to which everyone turns to you and listens to you carefully.
However, when this person’s toes are pointed away from you, they want to walk away from you because they either don’t like you, aren’t interesting to them right now, or they just have some other pressing commitment.
Of course, during a long conversation, the interlocutor’s feet move in different directions from time to time, but it is up to us to recognize where the feet are pointed the most.
They follow you on social media
If a person likes every photo or thought you post, it could be a sign that they are secretly in love with you. This person just follows all your stories on Instagram and sends you friend requests wherever they can.
By liking all of your social media activity, she wants to let you know that she is there and supporting you in your social media activities. Of course, this definitely means that this person thinks you are beautiful and admires your beauty by looking at your photos.
When someone takes every opportunity for physical contact
When a person touches you and says it wasn’t intentional, it can be a sign that they secretly love you but are afraid to admit it.
If this happens frequently and she takes every opportunity to touch you in some way, it is a sign that this person is definitely in love with you.
It doesn’t matter if she fixes your collar, brushes the crumbs off your t-shirt, extends the hug at the meeting for a split second longer than usual so that the touch ends with her hand sliding down your body.
This person just wants to touch you and they will find a way and a reason to do so. It is necessary to clearly understand that these touches are not of a nature, but simply represent a kind of physical intimacy.
This is what people in love do to get close and feel the skin of the person they are in love with. So the next time someone takes every opportunity to touch you in some way, you can be sure that that someone is in love with you.
When someone is trying to impress you
This is a sign that is less noticeable than the others, but one of the strongest indicators of infatuation there is.
It can be expressed in many different forms, but basically someone is trying to say they are good enough for you. For example, the person will send you pictures of them looking really good to prove that they look good enough for you.
She also agrees with everything you say or tries to live up to your standards.
For example, if you say that you love smart people, the person who is in love with you will start giving reasons why they are a smart person. And she will try to prove it to you through some of her works.
Whenever we like someone, we want them to have the best opinion of us, so we try to impress that person.
As mentioned, this sign is the least noticeable sign, but it is a strong indication that someone is in love with you.
Ask yourself personal questions
When someone is in love with you, they want to know as much about you as possible. Therefore you can expect many questions, also private ones. Through personal questions, this person wants to get to know you better and strengthen the bond between you.
And yes, she will want to know everything about you – your childhood, family, goals, dreams and even your fears. The inevitable question, of course, will be whether you are currently in a relationship.
Also, by asking these questions you can find out whether this person is an intelligent person or not.
We as humans have different sides, both good and not so good, and we need to be aware of that. Asking questions is a way of getting to know someone, but it’s also a sign that we’re enjoying our time with the person we’re asking questions of.
It’s a simple and useful way to keep a conversation going and let the dialogue flow naturally.
By asking you questions and listening to your answers, this person gets to know you better and this gives them an opportunity to show that they like you and care about you.
This person confides in you
A person who is in love with you will start confiding in you about the most intimate things in their life. Another clear sign of infatuation is when she tells you that she doesn’t usually do this to anyone else, just you.
Of course, in the reality of life, infatuation and trust are unrelated and not linked realistically, but the human feeling is that when they love someone, people automatically start to trust them.
This person will tell you that they didn’t have the happiest childhood, grew up with one parent, or are facing a major life dilemma. No matter what the issue, when a person opens their heart and soul to you, be sure that they are in love with you.
When someone laughs at all your jokes
People laugh easily and have more energy when they are around people they like. If someone likes you, that someone will enjoy your company and laugh at your jokes, even if they’re not funny.
Someone watching you sideways will think you are the funniest person on the planet.
You know you’re not the funniest person in the world, but this one person laughs at your every joke. She even laughs at jokes you know aren’t very funny.
So if someone laughs at all of your jokes, even the ones your friends think are bad, then that someone is definitely in love with you.
Of course, there are few lucky people who have the ability to stay cool, calm, and composed when in love. Most people are nervous when talking to the person they are in love with.
This nervousness manifests itself in a person playing with buttons, or a ring, constantly touching their hair, looking down, and the like. Of course, nervousness can be caused by a person being generally antisocial and suffering from social anxiety.
However, if a person only shows nervousness when they are with you, it is a sign of strong emotions towards you.
The next time you’re talking to a person who you think is in love with you, notice if they’re more restless or clumsy than usual, or lose track in mid-sentence.
It is a clear sign that someone is in love with you.