10 reasons why you will regret losing a good wife
I want to be honest and say that losing a good wife is one of the biggest mistakes you can make in life.
It’s costing you more than you think, and once it happens, there’s little you can do to recover.
Men should know that a good woman is hard to find. She’s not waiting around the next corner to stumble upon.
She is more like a pearl hidden deep in her shell and only a rare person will be able to find her.
But the main problem arises when a man does not know how to appreciate a good woman. He lives his life imagining that such women are all around him, when the reality is very different.
That’s why losing a good wife hurts more than anything else. It fills your heart with pain and sorrow and you despise yourself for letting her go.
Believe me, when you lose a good woman, you will think of her for a long time. She’ll be stuck in your head and you won’t know how to let her go.
You will remember them in the middle of the day and your whole body will freeze. You’ll think of her when you’re trying to fall asleep, and the mere thought won’t calm you down.
When you lose a good woman, you lose a friend for life, your greatest support, and all the genuine love she could have given you.
A good woman loves genuinely, and once she realizes that you are the one for her, she makes a decision never to leave you.
The shame is that your decision didn’t match hers and you let her go without knowing what would happen next.
When he realizes how rare she is
A good woman radiates a special energy. She makes you feel certain feelings that no other woman can.
There is something charming about her that draws you to her immediately. Spending time with her feels like a soothing and relaxing bath – it makes all problems seem unimportant.
But all this only became clear to you after you lost her. At this point it is too late to make up for your mistakes because the good woman is gone from your life.
You can try to convince yourself that there are many fish in the sea and that she is not the only good woman you will meet.
But over time you will realize how rare it is. She was unique in every way and no one could ever replace her.
That’s when losing a good wife hurts the most. When you realize that no matter how hard you try, you won’t get her back and that you will never find someone like her.
She was a perfect piece for your puzzle, but you decided to look for better options. Now you’re sorry and there’s nothing you can do about it.
When he realizes that their love was pure and real
We know very well that people don’t appreciate things until they lose them. We just don’t pay attention to things while we have them.
Once they’re gone, we’re sad and wish we could go back to the times gone by.
The same thing happens in love and in relationships. Losing a good woman doesn’t hurt until you realize what she had to offer.
You move on with your life, meet other people, and then it hits you.
A good woman really and truly loved you, and she never expected anything in return.
All those other women around you want something from you. And she – she was different and unique in every way.
No one would ever be able to compete with her, no one could even come close to her. She loved like crazy and didn’t care if her heart would be broken.
If you ask a good woman what love is, she will tell you that she is a reason for herself. She’s worth the pain and tears when you meet the right one.
Your good wife tried to give you all this, but you never saw anything she did for you.
You let her go because you didn’t do anything for her.
It wasn’t your actions that drove them away. It was your ability to do nothing for her.
When he realizes she was a once in a lifetime opportunity and he let her go
One of the worst things after losing a good woman is when you realize that she was a once in a lifetime opportunity. The chance of finding someone like her again is slim.
In fact, they almost don’t exist at all.
And poor you thought good women were easy to find. You thought the world was full of people like you.
That’s why you took her for granted, and it backfired.
When you lost her, you realized that it’s hard to find someone like her. It’s hard to find anyone even remotely like her.
Good women love most, but they also know when it’s time to let go. You can try to mistreat her, but she won’t let you because she knows her worth.
It seems like you were the only one who didn’t see their worth. You let her go and now you realize that was one of the biggest mistakes of your life.
When he realizes she was the only one listening to him
When you lose a good woman, you also lose a woman who is always there for you and who will listen to your problems in the middle of the day or in the middle of the night.
We live in a world where people don’t pay attention to what you say. Instead, they just wait for their turn to speak.
We have become selfish and no longer care about the problems of other people around us.
But the one who cared was the good woman who was once a part of your life. She cared about you and she always had an open ear for your problems.
Sometimes she couldn’t help you, but she still listened to you in the hope that it would make it easier for you.
If you lost her, you also lost someone who meant it. She never cut you off mid-sentence and talked about herself.
Instead, she listened to you for hours because she wanted to be there for you and did everything she could.
And you never cared. Maybe you thought she should do that for you.
And then she left. She couldn’t let you treat her in a way she didn’t deserve.
When he realizes that all other women only want materialistic things
We are witnesses to the way things work in today’s world.
If you can’t offer your girlfriend a big house and a fast car, she might cross you off her list of potential partners.
The thought of people chasing money instead of love can blow your mind. Especially when you’ve lost a good wife who was never into that sort of thing.
She loved you when you were at your lowest and she never made you feel guilty.
She cherished all those park and outdoor dates and never asked for more.
Your good wife never bothered with fancy dinners and expensive gifts.
A flower you picked on the way home was just perfect for her.
The thought that you thought of her meant more than any expensive gift.
Now that she’s gone, you’ve had enough time to realize that not all women will be like her.
To be honest, most would first ask you what kind of car you drive and then say if they want to take you out to dinner.
The world has become a place where materialistic things are more important than true love and respect.
But I guess you should choose that path the moment you let your good wife go.
She was more than just a pretty face – her soul was good and kind and she wanted you for your personality.
When he realizes that she appreciated him while he never appreciated her
When you lose a good woman and realize you never appreciated her, you feel terrible.
Only now do you realize that she loved the imperfect version of you that other people avoided. She never asked for you to change and she appreciated everything you were.
Little things meant a lot to her, so she always thanked you when you said something nice to her or did something for her.
She never asked for your attention. She knew you had your own battles to fight and didn’t want to put yourself first.
But believe me, she’s been waiting for you to talk to her and tell her how much you appreciate her. Just because she never asked for it doesn’t mean she didn’t want to hear it.
We all love knowing that the person we love appreciates everything we do for them. It was no different with her.
No matter how strong you are, sometimes you need that extra support that shows you are valued.
You never did, and that’s how you lost a good wife. If you’d made an effort to give her some attention, she’d probably still be there.
But you made a mistake, and now you have to deal with it on your own!
When he realizes that all she wanted was his love
You know that feeling when someone does something for you and expects you to owe them a favor. She was never like that.
She loved you unconditionally, with no preconditions. She never expected you to give her back anything other than your love.
Yet you failed and missed a good woman because you were unable to give her the love she deserved.
In a world full of thorns she was a rose. Beautiful and full of love.
She gave you her whole being and just wanted you to love her the same way.
But you had other things on your mind and never focused on them. You never respected what she gave you.
Eventually she got tired of waiting and saw that you had no intention of changing. And she never wanted to push you into anything.
She knew that you are capable of making decisions for yourself without having someone by your side to tell you what to do.
She started walking away and you never chased after her. That’s why she kept walking.
When he realizes that life is more than going out and partying
If you lose a good wife, it could be because of your young age. Maybe you thought it was too early to commit and start a serious relationship.
You made those excuses and let them go, but now you realize you were wrong.
At some point, sleepless nights on the town and constant partying will no longer bring you joy. At some point they won’t make you happy anymore.
Then you will start regretting the loss of a good woman because nothing can bring her back.
You traded your temporary pleasure for a lifetime of happiness and now you realize it was wrong.
But it’s too late to change your mind. The damage is done and the good woman is gone.
You can try to overcome your sadness by celebrating, but you know it won’t help.
Maybe she was the one you wanted to grow old with, but you never bothered to do anything for her that would justify her staying in your life.
When he realizes that no other woman can hold a candle to her
After losing a good wife, you will meet many other girls. You will try your luck with them, but it will never be the same.
You will never have what she had. They will never know how to make you smile when you’re feeling down.
None of them will know what you’re thinking about if you don’t say a word. She was the only one who had this power.
Honest, caring and charming – she knew how to deal with people and she never failed at it. Everyone felt comfortable in their company.
And the women you’re dating now – you’re afraid to introduce them to your parents because you know they wouldn’t approve.
You don’t like them yourself because they don’t measure up to that special woman you lost.
You can hope for her to reappear in your life, but once a good woman is gone, she rarely comes back.
When he realizes that she was his greatest support
No matter how strong you are as a man, from time to time you need someone to be there for you. Who pushes you when the going gets tough and tells you you can do it.
Sometimes all you need is that little wind on your back to keep going with your resolutions.
When you lose the person who always made you believe in yourself, it feels like you’ve lost your whole self.
Nothing feels the same anymore because you don’t have anyone to be there for you.
Sure, you have your friends and family, but they don’t know how to support you like a good woman does.
But you realized that too late. She’s already gone and your regrets won’t bring her back.
Just keep that in mind if you ever meet a woman as good as her. Please don’t let her go by not treating her the way she deserves.
You’ve lost someone because of this before. Don’t let it happen again!
